Twenty-two Oregon students received scholarships Monday morning at The Skanner Foundation’s Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Breakfast – the highest number in the foundation’s history.
About 1,000 people gathered Monday at the assembled crowd of 1,000 at the Red Lion Hotel on the River on Hayden Island for the breakfast, which was keynoted by Cheryl Grace, the senior vice president of U.S. strategic community alliances and consumer engagement at Nielsen. Mayor Ted Wheeler, Gov. Kate Brown and Daisy Santos, corporate trainer at Northwest Natural all shared brief remarks at the beginning of the event, as did representatives from several sponsoring organizations.
“I cannot recall a time in our history more urgent than right now. Our nation is at a crossroads,” Wheeler said. “Now more than ever, we must take Dr. King’s words to heart.”
Grace started her keynote address with a five-question survey about Black culture. After asking the audience to fill in the blanks on the aphorism “Black don’t crack” and asking where Black people go for therapy (church), Grace remarked her adult son knew the answer to every single one of the questions on the list, even though she didn’t recall explicitly teaching him any of them.
“Black culture is bigger than all of us,” Grace said. “Being Black is kind of cool.”
At Nielsen Grace has spearheaded several years of research on Black consumers and their influence on consumers of other races. At the same time African Americans are regarded as tastemakers, Grace said, conversations about the Black experience are increasingly about something else: fear.
“Lately when any conversation about African Americans is had, it’s about fear. It’s about what we are afraid of or who is afraid,” she said.
She went on to recite a quote from King: “People don’t get along because they fear each other. People fear each other because they don’t know each other. They don’t know each other because they don’t communicate.”
Grace shared a personal story about a woman at a wedding in her family who was 80 years old and, on seeing a multiracial group gather for photos at a family wedding between an African American woman and an Asian American man, “freaked out.”
According to Grace, Aunt Ruth started running people off the stage, saying, “This is family only, get off the stage” -- until the bride approached her and told her, “Aunt Ruth, it’s OK. It’s OK. They’re all family.”
Grace said it’s not just her family that’s getting more multicultural: 10 percent of African American women are married to someone of a different race, 10 percent of Hispanic women are married to someone of a different race and 26 percent of Asian woman are in interracial marriages as well. Forty-two percent of people between the ages of 18 and 34 identify as multicultural, and 51 percent of children under the age of 11 are multicultural, Grace said.
“The changing demographics of my family scared the bejeesus out of Aunt Ruth, but Aunt Ruth isn’t the only one who’s scared. These numbers are scary to millions of people. They are disconcerted. Some may feel it’s un-American,” Grace said.
The actual Aunt Ruth has little power. But the Aunt Ruths of the world are pushing back against the change they see, she said.
“What if the Aunt Ruths of the world are set loose on America’s main stage? What if the Aunt Ruths of the world have money and power? What if the Aunt Ruths of the world get to determine who gets into the ‘family’ – i.e. the United States – and what if Aunt Ruth gets to determine who doesn’t?” Grace said. “Suddenly, that cute little story ain’t so cute anymore.”
Grace said until recently, she would read about or watch stories of bigotry in the world and assume somebody would speak up and push back. Without mentioning President Trump by name, she referred to his recent comment referring to predominantly Black countries as, in her words, “bleephole countries,” and asked why no one pushed back against him in that room that day.
“There are 46 million Black people in the United States. 46 million. And yet, if you were like me, we only thought of ourselves as individuals. If you were like me, you stared at that television set, frustrated and numb, and you wondered, ‘Who’s going to come help clean up this situation?’” Grace said. “I’m here to tell you there are 46 million of you all who can step up and help clear this up.”
Grace urged the audience to move past fear and leverage their power as consumers and business leaders, to use social media, networking organizations and churches to start organizing.
“Rosa has left us. Malcolm has left us. Martin has left us. The only us left now is us: 46 million of us. Use your power,” Grace said.